Went to Colorado Springs to take part in the World Series of Comedy. I am always a nervous wreck when it comes to competitions. I feel like I have good material and everything, but it never seems to hold up very well under scrutiny. I do them anyway because it is the best way to get out there and network.
I was in the “wildcard” round. If you place in the wildcard, you can then move on to the next competition. The 40 comics that were selected were all done so based on the video that was sent in. So, the wildcard round is for those comics that had a pretty bad video, but not that bad. I was the ninth comic and I thought I did a good job. I placed second and got to move on to the next round.
So I got to hang out Thursday and watch shows and got to see the sites of Colorado Springs. I performed first show Friday and I was a nervous wreck. I actually laid in my hotel bed, timing my material, so I could be sure not to go over time. I never do this! I just go up with a rough sketch of what I will do and I let the crowd take me the rest of the way. Because I placed in the wildcard, I was the first comic to go up. Comics call this the “bullet” spot or “taking the bullet”. The reason being is because as the first comic, everyone else will be judge based on you. You are the average, and being the average does not get you into the final night. I did my thing, and I thought it was great. As the first comic, you have to set the bar high. You can’t mess up because then the bar is so low that the other comics can just walk over it. They picked two comics to go on to the Saturday shows, and I was not one of them.
After the show, the guy that puts this all together told me I did a good job taking the bullet, and I only lost out by a point, but while I was listening to him, my brain was muddy. Like he was talking to me while I was in a bowl of water. All I could keep thinking was, “Not again.”. I didn’t stay up that late because I had a flight back to Spokane, but I did stay to watch my buddy Phil Kopczynski take second during the next show. The whole time though, I was sitting there wondering what I could have done differently.
This is my third of these types of competitions, and I always seem to do well, until I talk myself into failing. I lay there at night just running through all the times I ran into hardship, or I just tell myself that I am not supposed to be a great comic. I think about all the other failures in my life and think why would this be any different. That sort of thinking will eat away at your soul. I try not to let the negative thoughts get to me, but it is hard in a business where failure comes in bunches and the victories are so small, but seem so big because you don’t know what it feels like. Comics in Spokane assume that I am doing all this stuff, but what they fail to see are the emails (or lack there of) from casting directors and club bookers turning me down.
It hurts to work at something and not see it pan out. That is comedy though. That is show business. It tears away at you and you mull over all the ways you could have turned it around. Maybe I should have done this, or maybe I should have said that? That always pops up in my mind after the fact. It also doesn’t help that I get approached after the show and told how close I was to success. It just plants another seed in my mind that I should not strive for a better position, that the space I take up now in comedy is the one I am best suited. That may be right. It doesn’t hurt to keep trying though.
Even though I fail in a lot of my pursuits, my YouTube channel, my photography business, my podcast, this blog, it doesn’t mean that the passion to do those things die along with it. Every Monday, I still have a desire to type out these words even though a small number of people will read them. I still take photos and offer my services. I still write short stories and audition for commercials and movies. I do these things because when I look at my life without those things, I don’t see me existing. These are the things that make my heart race, that make me feel like I am adding to the positivity of the human condition, and so I will still perform comedy, and write and take photos, even though I will run into a lot more hardships. This defines me, and I can’t walk away from it.